{"id":146892,"date":"2019-06-10T08:59:11","date_gmt":"2019-06-10T07:59:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.allencarr.com\/articles\/learning-to-finally-love-yourself\/"},"modified":"2024-11-25T14:03:30","modified_gmt":"2024-11-25T14:03:30","slug":"learning-to-finally-love-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.allencarr.com\/en-us\/articles\/learning-to-finally-love-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"Learning to finally love yourself &#8211; Thrive article"},"content":{"rendered":"    <section  class=\"container container--large article-container\">\n            <div class=\"article \">\n            <div class=\"article__sidebar\">\n                <div class=\"sidebar-inner-section author\">\n                    <div class=\"author__avatar\">\n                                                                                                            <img decoding=\"async\"\n     src=\"https:\/\/allen-carr-live.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/16103712\/author-john-dicey-200x200.jpeg\"\n             srcset=\"https:\/\/allen-carr-live.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/16103712\/author-john-dicey-50x50.jpeg 360w,\n             https:\/\/allen-carr-live.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/16103712\/author-john-dicey-100x100.jpeg 768w,\n             https:\/\/allen-carr-live.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/16103712\/author-john-dicey-200x200.jpeg 1440w,\n             https:\/\/allen-carr-live.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/16103712\/author-john-dicey.jpeg 2000w\"\n             alt=\"\"\n               \/>                                            <\/div>\n                    <span class=\"sidebar-sub-title\">Written By<\/span>\n                    <a class=\"u-text-underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.allencarr.com\/en-us\/authors\/john-dicey\/\" title=\"John Dicey Bio\">\n                        <h5 class=\"author__author\">John Dicey<\/h5>\n                    <\/a>\n                                                                <h6 class=\"author__title sidebar-content\">Former Global Chief Executive Officer &#038; 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Thrive article<\/h1>\n\n                \n                                                    <p class=\"article__excerpt\">The best (and most useful) book I have ever read is the Easy Way to Quit Smoking by Allen Carr. I literally quit smoking (smoker for over 10 years) right after I finished the last page of the book. It transformed my life and the way I have treated myself ever since.<\/p>\n                \n                \n                                                            <div class=\"article__image\">\n                                                                                    <img decoding=\"async\"\n     src=\"https:\/\/allen-carr-live.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/16104933\/mylene-garot-quits-moking-with-Allen-carrs-easyway.png\"\n             srcset=\"https:\/\/allen-carr-live.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/16104933\/mylene-garot-quits-moking-with-Allen-carrs-easyway-220x167.png 360w,\n             https:\/\/allen-carr-live.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/16104933\/mylene-garot-quits-moking-with-Allen-carrs-easyway-440x334.png 768w,\n             https:\/\/allen-carr-live.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/16104933\/mylene-garot-quits-moking-with-Allen-carrs-easyway.png 1440w,\n             https:\/\/allen-carr-live.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/16104933\/mylene-garot-quits-moking-with-Allen-carrs-easyway.png 2000w\"\n             alt=\"\"\n               \/>\n                                                    <\/div>\n                                    \n                <div class=\"u-show-mobile article-social-bar\">\n                    <span class=\"sidebar-sub-title\">Share this article<\/span>\n                    <ul class=\"social-list\">\n            <li class=\"social-list__item\">\n            <a class=\"social-list__item-link\"\n               href=\"\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/www.allencarr.com\/en-us\/articles\/learning-to-finally-love-yourself\/\"\n               onclick=\"window.open(this.href, 'share popup','left=20,top=20,width=500,height=360,toolbar=1,resizable=0'); return false;\"\n               rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"\n               target=\"_blank\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.allencarr.com\/wp-content\/themes\/allen-carr\/public\/dist\/svgs\/social-facebook-fill.svg\" alt=\"Share to Facebook\"\/>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n                <li class=\"social-list__item\">\n            <a class=\"social-list__item-link\"\n               href=\"\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=https:\/\/www.allencarr.com\/en-us\/articles\/learning-to-finally-love-yourself\/&#038;text=Learning to finally love yourself &#8211; Thrive article\"\n               onclick=\"window.open(this.href, 'share popup','left=20,top=20,width=500,height=360,toolbar=1,resizable=0'); return false;\"\n               rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"\n               target=\"_blank\">\n                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.allencarr.com\/wp-content\/themes\/allen-carr\/public\/dist\/svgs\/social-twitter-fill.svg\" alt=\"Share to Twitter\"\/>\n            <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n        \n        \n    <li class=\"social-list__item\">\n        <a class=\"social-list__item-link\"\n            href=\"https:\/\/www.allencarr.com\/en-us\/articles\/learning-to-finally-love-yourself\/\"\n            data-behaviour=\"copy-link\" title=\"Click to copy\">\n            <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.allencarr.com\/wp-content\/themes\/allen-carr\/public\/dist\/svgs\/social-sharelink-fill.svg\" alt=\"Copy link to clipboard\"\/>\n        <\/a>\n    <\/li>\n<\/ul>                <\/div>\n\n                \n                \n                \n                \n\n<p><p>Extract from an article in Thrive Magazine following an interview with Mylene Garot<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Finally, loving yourself will act as your protective shield. If you are aware of your worth, nothing can shake you down. No mean comment, no failure, no bumps, and no ill-intentioned people, NOTHING.<\/p>\n<p>As a part of my series about \u201cLearning To Finally Love Yourself\u201d I had the pleasure to interview Mylene Garot. Mylene is an outstanding business development executive and Emotional Intelligence expert with extensive success in driving strategic innovation, revenue growth and Emotional Intelligence coaching, with over 10 years of marketing, business development, and start-up experience. Author of The Emotional Intelligence Guidebook (for Successful People)&#8230;.<\/p>\n<h2>What are your favorite books, podcasts, or resources for self-psychology, intimacy, or relationships? What do you love about each one and how does it resonate with you?<\/h2>\n<p>The best (and most useful) book I have ever read is the Easy Way to Quit Smoking by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.allencarr.com\/en-us\/about-allen-carrs-easyway\/\">Allen Carr<\/a>. I literally quit smoking (smoker for over 10 years) right after I finished the last page of the book. It transformed my life and the way I have treated myself ever since. Being capable of such exploit reportedly so hard to achieve, made me believe I was capable of anything.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"button red hvr\" title=\"Read more about 'How to Stop Smoking &amp; Vaping'\" href=\"https:\/\/www.allencarr.com\/en-us\/easyway-stop-smoking\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read more about Allen Carr\u2019s Easyway to Quit Smoking &amp; Vaping<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>From the desk of John Dicey, Global CEO &amp; Senior Facilitator, Allen Carr\u2019s Easyway<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thriveglobal.com\/stories\/learning-to-finally-love-yourself-with-mylene-garot\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read full article here<\/a><\/p><br><br><\/p>\n\n\n            <\/div>\n        <\/div>\n        <\/section>\n\n    <section class=\"related-articles u-background-white article-related-articles\">\n                \n                            \n                \n        <h3 class=\"related-articles__title u-text-center\">\n           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