“If I don’t take ket, I’ll be boring and lose my friends”
Does ketamine really make a night out better? Explore how ket can disconnect you from the friends, music and moments you enjoy, and why saying no doesn’t mean missing out.
This is the big one, so let’s be honest about it. Many people start because of their friends. Keeping on with it is a different story.
Does ket actually make you more fun?
Think about what ket actually does – It makes you slur, stare, wobble and zone out. At higher doses people can end up in a K-hole, and can’t talk, move or laugh, completely disconnected from the people around them. That isn’t being the life of the party, it’s boring.
Ket can feel friendly at first. That is the trick
We are not going to pretend it feels like nothing at first. Ket can feel warm and easy early on, almost like it is on your side. That is the love-bombing stage, and its only job is to get you onside. But the relationship is not what it seems. Ket is not your friend. It wants control, and the more you use it, the more it keeps you where it wants you, like a parasite feeding off you.
The real fun comes from your friends, the music, the jokes, the place, the night. Ket puts a distance between you and all of that. If you’re having a good time, you want to be fully there for it and remember it the next day. Think about it. You’re taking something to make your night better, yet the more it affects you, the less aware you can become of what’s happening around you and the less you might remember the next day. You’re taking it to enjoy the night, but it can make you miss it.
Real friends don’t need you numbed
If someone only wants to hang out with you when you’re using, they aren’t really your friend; they just want a using partner. True friends will respect your choice, and many secretly wish they had the confidence to say no too.
You’re not alone in saying no
“It might feel like everyone takes ket. But around 98 out of every 100 young people didn’t use it in the last year.”
Around 98 in every 100 young people aged 16 to 24 in England and Wales did not use ketamine in the last year (ONS). It can feel like “everyone” does it, but that’s not true.
Being free is attractive
Being able to enjoy yourself fully without needing a powder is a sign of real confidence, not a fake, chemically induced ease.
What program is right for you?
Both programs are a form of spoken therapy delivered in simple English with no scare stories or images.
Both cover the illusions of the addiction/issue, question your beliefs, provide insights into why you think as you do, shows you how to gain freedom and changes the way you will think about the addiction/issue so that you can leave free without any feeling of loss or battle of wills.
The 1-2-1 seminars are a live one-day course delivered by trained facilitators, all of whom quitted with the method. They are delivered either online via Zoom or at a center and are one to one seminars. There are shorter booster seminars that are different to the first seminar for the few that require them. There is also a money-back guarantee.
The online video is a pre-recorded program that can be streamed to your device. There are version for quitting cannabis or cocaine and are all presented by a facilitator who has helped thousands of people to freedom. They can be accessed anywhere and at anytime.
